Sunday, March 2, 2014

Have You Been Praying To God For A Christian Husband Or Wife?


   "FUSION"
At 
Christ Fellowship

           
"Fusion"

  A Single Adult Ministry At
Christ Fellowship Church


Have You Been Praying
 To God For A 
Christian Husband Or Wife? 

What Does God Say!

Have you been praying to God for a Christian husband or wife? There are probably many ways for you to find him or her—but according to Proverbs 18:22—he’s supposed to find you! This allows for your full and complete focus on God to lead the right man or woman to you. Not the perfect man or woman, but the one who is perfect for you.

So what happens when he or she shows up? Other than seeking wise counsel from godly men and women, you need to be prayerful and discerning. The following character traits are meant to be a guideline not a legalistic rule (grace, grace, and more grace!). How does this potential husband or wife demonstrate the following traits?

Their love for God“This is love for God: to keep his commands
(1 John 2:16)

Is their passion for God first and foremost evident in his life or is it just a colorful background in his busy life? You are compelled to serve God with all your heart because of the love that He has shown you through salvation. You want a spouse who shares your same intensity. His capacity to love you as Christ loves the church will diminish if his love for God is weak from the beginning.

Their commitment to building the kingdom of God“Do the work of an evangelist” 
(2 Timothy 4:5)

Do you ever see them witnessing to the lost or do they demonstrate an indifference to those who are perishing around him? This will be significant in your future marriage as you want a husband or wife who is sensitive to the plight of those on their way to everlasting suffering. His sensitivity reflects a tender heart to you and those around you.

Their generosity in finances, energy, and time“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also”
(Matthew 6:21)

Are they a giver or more of a taker? Have you noticed their generosity or their stinginess? They don’t have to be wealthy to be generous, but rather they are willing to sacrifice their own money, time, and energy for others. There is great joy for a wife whose husband securely entrusts his gifts to God first and shows her great appreciation.

Their willingness to put others before themselves“No one should seek their own good, but the good of others”
(1 Corinthians 10:24)

Do they demonstrate an unselfish attitude or must they get their own way with pouting? A selfish spouse will bring much grief to a marriage especially when children come along. In contrast, a godly spouse will set aside their own desires for you without making you feel guilty about it. They will reflect the grace of God in what they says and do.

Their service to the church“This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of the Lord’s people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God” 
(2 Corinthians 9:12)









A couple who love God with all their hearts will be a dynamic duo for the kingdom of God and establish a godly seed for the future.


Do they simply attend Sunday service or do they actively engage theirselves in the church ministry? There are always opportunities for members to serve not only on Sundays, but with the youth, elderly, small groups, mission trips, etc.; during the week. They should be doing something for his church that other people recognize and can speak to his devotion of doing a good work as to the Lord.

Their biblical knowledge and lifestyle connect with each other“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says” 
(James 1:22)

Do they really know the Bible or do they only have cursory knowledge of basic scriptures? God’s word is open and available to everyone from the uneducated to the collegiate. The fruit of their actions and lifestyle should reflect the desire to not only hear the Word of God, but also how they live it out everyday.

Their intensity and faithfulness in prayer“The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective”
(James 5:16)

Do their prayers seem to fall flat or do they reflect a strong faith in God to answer mightily? They don’t have to use pompous sounding wording, rather his prayers are meaningful, heartfelt, and genuine to the Lord. Their prayers ought to stir up a desire in others to believe in God in spite of the circumstances around them.

Their attitude about sin and the world“Do not conform to the pattern of this world,but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good,pleasing and perfect will.” 

(Romans 12:2)

Do they exhibit a repulsion to sin in their life or do they blow it off and make excuses for weaknesses? Are they uncomfortable when surrounded by worldliness or do they blend in? You will know it when you see it. The Holy Spirit within you will raise red flags if he compromises the seemingly insignificant sins in their life.

Their interaction with their family“Put their religion into practice by caring for their own family”
(1 Peter 5:4)

Do they speak begrudgingly of their parents and treat them with dishonor? Or do they exhibit a calm patience and consideration even if his family members don’t return the same grace? A godly spouse is able to respectfully disagree with his elders without causing drama or shame. You will be blessed to have good relations with your future in-laws and they will be the conduit to that end.

Their connection with other Christians“All the believers were together and had everything in common”
(Acts 2:24)

Are they connected with other Christian friends or do they keep to themselves a lot? The presence of believers in their life gives credence to their ability to communicate, to have fun, and to rely on Christian counsel when necessary. Although their friendships shouldn’t monopolize all their free time, their choice of company reflects their level of compatibility.

Take a second look down this list, but this time, make sure that you reflect these traits as well. A couple who love God with all their hearts will be a dynamic duo for the kingdom of God and establish a godly seed for the future.


God Bless You And 
We Hope To See You There
At The Next Fusion Gathering!

Mandisa--- Overcomer


Meeting On Saturdays 7:30 pm
At
Christ Fellowship Church North Campus

5343 Northlake Blvd.
Palm Beach Gardens, Fl 33418

Contact Ministry Leader: Jay Steinhof
Direct: (772) 214-9375
E-Mail: jsteinhof@comcast.net


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Maria Carbone Martin
Christ Fellowship - Palm Beach Gardens, West Palm Beach, Royal
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Palm Beach, Stuart, and Boynton Beach




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